The Most Empowering Mindset Shift You Need with Merril Hoge

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The Most Empowering Mindset Shift You Need with Merril Hoge

Episode Summary

Have you ever wondered what separates those who achieve their dreams from those who don't? Is it sheer talent or luck? While these factors certainly play a role, there's something more profound at work — the power of mindset. Meet Merril Hoge, a young man with a burning passion for football and a relentless determination to make it to the NFL. His journey began with a childhood dream, a corkboard adorned with his favorite players, and a mantra that would become his guiding principle: "Find a way."

Throughout his path to the NFL, Merril encountered numerous obstacles and faced countless challenges that could have easily deterred him from his aspirations. But armed with an unwavering belief in himself and an unyielding commitment to his dreams, he found a way to overcome each hurdle that came his way.

In this episode of Win Monday, we discuss Merril’s concept of "find a way" and its significance in his life. Merrill shares how this mindset helped him overcome challenges and pursue his dream of playing in the NFL. We discuss the importance of self-reflection, taking action, and empowering others. We also touch on the power of the mind, developing positive patterns and mindsets, and building confidence. Merril emphasizes the value of small actions, consistency, and the importance of repetition and self-reflection. We also explore why finding inner peace and fulfillment is more important than external achievements.

Key Takeaways

  • Merril’s journey to the NFL began with a childhood dream, a corkboard, and a mantra - "find a way."
  • Merril shares a personal story about setting a goal and facing discouragement. He reminded us that our mind is our most powerful tool, and we have the choice to control our minds or let them control us.
  • Merril encourages listeners who may need more confidence to start by taking action, no matter how small.
  • Paul’s belief is that by developing positive patterns and habits, we can make tough days less arduous.
  • Merril agrees that winning the inner scoreboard – which includes joy, peace, and fulfillment, is more important than external achievements.

In This Episode

  • [00:56] The origin story of "Find a Way"
  • [02:34] Creating a wall of goals
  • [08:20] The significance of helping others
  • [10:56] Controlling the mind and developing resilience
  • [17:03] The value of taking ownership
  • [19:28] Building confidence through action
  • [21:32] Merril's personal story about the value of taking a positive initial step, even if it's a small one
  • [25:59] The concept of "we are what we repeatedly do"
  • [28:13] The value of self-reflection
  • [29:42] Finding peace and fulfillment with one's efforts

Notable Quotes

  • [05:50] “No matter what I'm dealing with, and what my challenge is, what my goal might be, I do something about the circumstance.” – Merril
  • [06:20] “I don't think anybody can change another person's mind. So the best thing you could possibly do for somebody is open their mind.”- Merril
  • [31:05] “When you work on the personal things in your life, nobody's going to hand you a trophy and a great job. But you can be rewarded with things like peace and joy and happiness.” – Merril
  • [31:51] "I did my part, I got everything out of my God-given ability. That's what great peace is. – Merril

Our Guest

Merril Hoge is a renowned international speaker, best-selling author, former NFL running back, on-air commentator, and passionate advocate for numerous causes. He possesses a profound ability to ignite inspiration within audiences. Guided by a powerful mantra, "Find. A. Way.," Merril has seamlessly woven it into the fabric of his life and illustrious career. Today, he extends the reach of this transformative message, spreading hope and resilience to people across the globe.

Resources and Links

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Winning Monday is for the separators. Those of us who are determined to become the best and fastest version of ourselves. Each episode is a masterclass in becoming 1% better each day, no matter your path to work-life mastery. Your guide for this journey is Paul Epstein, 15-year NFL and NBA executive, bestselling author, global keynote speaker, and Success Magazine’s top thought leader that gets results, and Founder of our Win Monday Community. Drawing from Paul’s high-profile separators of Fortune 500 CEOs, Olympians, and Shark Tank entrepreneurs to Guinness World Record holders, NYT bestselling authors, Navy SEALs, and more, this show will inspire you with the confidence required to win one day, one decision, and one action at a time.