From Bullying Victim to World Changer: Justin Wren's Unforgettable Story

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From Bullying Victim to World Changer: Justin Wren's Unforgettable Story

Episode Summary

Have you ever met someone who genuinely enjoys being a target of bullying? It's a question that almost unanimously draws a resounding "no." The reality is that nobody in life aspires to be bullied. Yet, despite our shared aversion to it, bullying remains a prevalent issue that most of us encounter at some point in our lives – whether during our formative years or even in the professional world.

In today’s episode, we have the pleasure of featuring the incredible Justin Wren, widely known as "The Big Pygmy". Justin emerged from a harrowing past marked by depression, suicidal thoughts, and drug addiction. His life took a transformative turn when he lived among the Mbuti Pygmy people in the Congo Basin Rainforest. Upon returning, he founded "Fight For The Forgotten," a non-profit dedicated to ending the global water crisis, which has expanded its reach to aid the Batwa Pygmies of Uganda.

In our conversation, Justin opens up about his experiences with bullying, depression, and addiction, and how he found solace and purpose in wrestling. He discusses his transition to MMA and the importance of finding strength in one's reasons and purpose. Justin also highlights his work with "Fight for the Forgotten" and their mission to provide clean water and support to communities in need. The conversation also touches on the importance of taking action, collaborating, and making a meaningful impact.

Key Takeaways

  • Finding your passion and using it as a tool for personal growth can help overcome struggles like bullying and addiction.
  • Success is not just about physical strength, but the strength of one's reasons and purpose.
  • Nothing in life happens without action.
  • Self-care and asking for help are important for healing and personal growth.
  • Confronting one's challenges and seeking help is a transformative step.

In This Episode

  • [01:31] Justin’s formative years and experiences with bullying
  • [05:08] Finding confidence through wrestling
  • [09:53] The importance of having strong reasons for fighting
  • [11:36] Justin’s practical advice for overcoming self-limiting beliefs and healing from the effects of bullying
  • [12:01] What makes a hero?
  • [13:02] Facing challenges and asking for help
  • [18:57] Helping others find their reasons
  • [20:46] How to support and get  involved in Justin's mission-driven work
  • [24:59] The importance of taking action
  • [29:58] Putting love and compassion into action
  • [35:15] Justin’s practical ways and actions to win Monday

Notable Quotes

  • [00:05:08] "It's really hard to be confident whenever you have a record playing in your head that becomes your own self-talk, that's voices of somebody else but becomes your own voice saying you're worthless, you're not good enough.” - Justin
  • [00:13:09] “Self-care isn't selfish and doing the right things for yourself. The strongest thing I ever did was ask for help. And it took me a long time to suicide attempts to sense that treatment until I finally said, I need help.” - Justin
  • [00:13:29] “When you face it all, feel it all, that's where the magic happens. That's the birthplace of miracles. And so not avoiding it, not running from it, but facing it head on and inviting in help, that's a game changer." - Justin
  • [00:18:26] “The most confident soldier or warrior, fighter, person isn't the person that's driven out of hate for the person in front of them. They're driven out of love by the people behind them or alongside them.” - Justin

Our Guest

Justin Wren’s influence has reached millions across the globe through his appearances on major media outlets such as CNN, NBC, CBS, ESPN, Sports Illustrated, The Joe Rogan Experience (nine times), The Ed Mylett Show, and Mike Tyson's HotBoxin'. Additionally, his TEDx Talks and his book, "Fight For The Forgotten: How a Mixed Martial Artist Stopped Fighting for Himself and Started Fighting for Others," have also left an indelible impact on countless individuals worldwide.

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